Monday, May 20, 2013

Now that I’ve decided, where do I begin?





You have made the decision and you are ready to take the plunge into the homeschooling world. If you have decided before your kids even stepped into a brick and mortar school, you are blessed! If your kids are going to be coming home from a classroom, it will be harder in the beginning, but not impossible and you will be thankful you did it in the end.

 What to do first? Learn the laws of your state. Each state varies greatly and it is vitally important you cross your t’s and dot every last I when it comes to this department. The best place to find the laws is on the Home School Legal Defense Fund website. I also strongly encourage you to become a member of HSLDF. Hopefully you will never need to use the legal services they offer you as a member and instead your membership fee will go towards helping them fight to keep homeschooling legal throughout our country. They do great work and I hope you will support them. 

 Once you learn the laws, you will want to read, read and read some more. If your kids are very little, you will have lots of time to research different methods and like a college student, change your major at least three or four times before finally settling on a method that fits your family and your child’s learning style.

Books I recommend are Mary Pride’s Complete Guide To Getting Started in Homeschooling. She covers every method out there and gives a great description of each of them. The Well Trained Mind by Susan Wise Bauer gives some excellent advice on educating your child from the crib years on up and even if you don’t choose the classical method to teach your child, this is still a great book that I wish every parent would read.

 Home schooler or not. Endangered Minds: Why Children Don’t Think and What We Can Do About It by Jane Healy is another indispensable book when it comes to our kids learning abilities and what we are doing to their brains by plopping them in front of a computer screen and t.v screen at such a young age.

For the parents of very little children, as you are doing your research, read, read, and read to your kids. An hour a night was what I did. We had a pile of books, often reading the same ones each night for a week until they chimed along with their favorite parts. Read Caps For Sale to your three year old and you will see what I mean! When picking out books, find reading lists online from other homeschoolers for good recommendations. Don’t choose dumbed down Disney versions. Their brains are built to absorb great words and great stories. Beatrix Potter knew children were not to be talked down to when she had the little birds “implore him to exert himself” when encouraging Peter Rabbit to free himself from Mr. McGregor’s garden net . You will be astounded by your young child’s vocabulary just from being read great books.

If you are bringing your kids home after being in a brick and mortar school, it’s going to be a little tougher. People say it often takes a full year for kids to decompress from sitting in a classroom and getting use to learning at home. Kids, and parents, are often thrown into shock when their every minute isn’t scheduled for them so keeping a routine in the very beginning is a tremendous help.  Knowing that you will not need to replicate the classroom is a big relief for parents new to homeschooling. You will not need to spend seven hours at the kitchen table, five days a week. A teacher in a classroom has 20 plus pupils to teach, distractions, questions from individual kids, papers to pass out. A parent is one on one with the child, no waiting for help as the teacher finishes with another student. When your child stumbles on a concept, you are there to explain it. If he breezes through the problems, he doesn’t have to sit and wait for the class to end, you just move on to the next subject. In the early years, you will easily get through a days’ worth of school before lunchtime. The rest of the day can be used for park day, music lessons, field trips, that all important socialization that non homeschoolers wonder how a homeschooled child can possibly be receiving if they are locked away at home and not getting on that big yellow school bus!

 Most importantly, don’t get overwhelmed! You will be inundated with curriculums to choose, methods to use, co op classes to take. Remember that every home school parent you meet will have a strong opinion on their method being best but don’t get swayed by others opinions. Take your time doing your research, find what’s best for your family. Enjoy the journey!

By Sasha Mercer
Homeschooling Blogger
TheAmericanRefugees.com


Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Harriet Parke Agenda 21



From the editors: Harriet Parke is one of our favorite writers.  We are huge fans and loved Agenda 21.  We are excited that @mericanrefugee will have her on his radio show on Tuesday, the 21st.  Access the show from http://www.TheAmericanRefugees.com/. Everybody should be following her bog: http://harrietparke.blogspot.com/  We now with pride include one of her blogs here.


KNOCK IN THE NIGHT


The novel, Agenda 21, has been read by many, many people. I know how many copies have been sold. And many readers have reached out to me, for which I am grateful. The most gratifying may be the one I am telling you about on this humble blog:

A package was mailed to me c/o Madwoman in the Attic. I received it yesterday at our weekly meeting.

I didn't recognize the name or address of the sender.

The package contained 2 copies of a book: Knock In the Night by Balazs Szabo. One was a signed copy for me. There was also a letter for me from the author. The letter, per verbatim, reads:
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2/5/13

Dear Harriet:

I am so swept away by the book you wrote. Glad Glenn put his name on it for marketing purposes.

You have written the fiction of what my people and I have lived in Soviet Communist occupied Hungary.

The Agenda 21 Plan of the UN is nothing more than a carbon copy of that same evil and its desire of world domination.

My book Knock In The Night tells it the way it was for me until my escape at 13.5 in 1956.

Hope you have time to read it and share the extra coy with the writing club at Madwomen in the Attic.

My apologies, but I am not an author and perhaps I should have stuck to brushes my tools of art, but the story had to be told for my sons.

Congratulations for your master piece. Hope you get my countryman's (Pulitzer) award for it which is unlikely while this regime is in power.

Warmly,
Balazs Szabo
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His bio identifies him as an internationally-renowed artist and his artwork is in museums from New Jersey to Hawaii. His art work, The Eye of the Muse, won the 1987 U.S.A. Print Design Excellence Award. He remains devoted to the ideals of freedom and Democracy for all.

I am both honored and humbled by his words and his life experiences.





Monday, May 13, 2013

But I’m Not A Teacher!



But I’m Not A Teacher!
By Sasha Mercer
Homeschooling Blogger
www.TheAmericanRefugees.com 

When the topic comes up with parents that haven’t had a lot of, if any, contact with other home schooling families, this is often their first fear. A fear that has been perpetuated by our culture of institutionalized education. 

 There is a tremendous amount of money vested in the lie that parents are not equipped to teach their children what they themselves have already been taught and can, in most cases, do very well themselves practicing it on a daily basis! Your children are seen as dollar signs. Each child that is not sitting in a public school classroom means anywhere from $8,000 to $18,000 depending on the state, that that school is not getting. One would think that with all the gnashing of teeth about smaller class sizes that schools would be delighted to have fewer students, but this is not the case. Keeping your child in a classroom is about money, and whatever route they must take to make you feel incapable of teaching your child on your own, and keep him in that desk, they will do. This is the most important thing you must keep in mind before you embark on this journey of home schooling. Wear it as armor because you will be hit hard with this in the beginning!

Many parents that decide to home school often have educators in the family that take this as a personal affront when you express your plans. They often make the false syllogism of “You aren’t going to become your own doctor, too are you?” This is such an utter nonsense comparison that it isn’t even worthy of a debate and should send a red flag up right away! Anyone making that logical fallacy shouldn’t be teaching anyone. So just smile and nod and move along.

I have several home school friends that did teach school before deciding to teach their own at home and all have admitted to me that it didn’t prepare them for teaching their own child. More than one has said they learned what they called “crowd control” and how to follow a planned curriculum but actually teaching an individual child, they didn’t feel any better prepared than the mom that doesn’t have a degree in education.
If our schools are doing their jobs, any person being granted a high school diploma should easily be able to turn around and teach a child what they have just been taught! Any school official saying any different should be asked to review their education system if this isn’t the case. If you just spent 12 years in an institution and you aren’t equipped to teach any of what you just learned to another human being, you might want to demand 12 years of your life back.

The fact of the matter is you’ve been teaching your child since it was born. Whether you believe in God or that we evolved from bacteria, you can’t argue the fact that nature set us up to be taught by the being that birthed us. 

The brains of children are sponges, ready to learn something as complex as language just by listening to those around them speak. We teach them how to dress, feed themselves, behave out on the playground, everything that involves functioning as a person but yet we are trained to believe we are incapable of teaching them how to add 5 apples and two apples or how to read a book. One of the most humorous things I was ever told by an “educator” when my children were very young was not to teach them anything they would learn in school. They will be ahead of other kids and be bored, was their reasoning. This was one of my “smile and nod” moments because I knew my kids wouldn’t be stepping foot in a classroom but I wasn’t about to engage in THAT conversation.

  Every subject to be taught to a child has a whole library full of books to guide the parent in teaching it. There are books that will tell you what to say verbatim as you teach a topic with the lesson plan already laid out for you, or if you are confident in teaching the topic, you can pick a book that provides you with less hand holding. 

The internet is an amazing resource for homeschoolers. Any topic you wish to teach your child can be found, most likely with step by step instructions and pictures that another homeschooler has already laid out for you. Struggling with a math concept? Khan Academy, for example, is an outstanding resource. It takes you step by step through the problems. It can either be a refresher for the parent to teach the child, or it can teach the child directly. We live in an amazing time for learning, with everything we ever wanted to learn literally at our fingertips. The idea that children must sit in a sterile classroom for 7 hours a day in order to learn is fast becoming an outdated notion. 

The bottom line is you CAN teach your child. You don’t need a piece of paper certifying this. No one has their best interest at heart more than you do and you will never regret it.

Sunday, May 12, 2013

One Year In Hell... Be Prepped.



From the editors:
Chaos and collapse. It is a real possibility here in America and we hear at The American Refugees, believe people need as much information as possible to be prepared. With that in mind, we reprint an article from http://www.naturalnews.com/040249_Bosnia_preppers_survival_strategies.html#ixzz2T8OxT42y


One year in Hell...

I am from Bosnia. You know, between 1992 and 1995, it was hell. For one year, I lived and survived in a city with 6,000 people without water, electricity, gasoline, medical help, civil defense, distribution service, any kind of traditional service or centralized rule.

Our city was blockaded by the army; and for one year, life in the city turned into total crap. We had no army, no police. We only had armed groups; those armed protected their homes and families.

When it all started, some of us were better prepared. But most of the neighbors' families had enough food only for a few days. Some had pistols; a few had AK-47s or shotguns.

After a month or two, gangs started operating, destroying everything. Hospitals, for example, turned into slaughterhouses. There was no more police. About 80 percent of the hospital staff were gone. I got lucky. My family at the time was fairly large (15 people in a large house, six pistols, three AKs), and we survived (most of us, at least).

The Americans dropped MREs every 10 days to help blockaded cities. This was never enough. Some -- very few -- had gardens. It took three months for the first rumors to spread of men dying from hunger and cold. We removed all the doors, the window frames from abandoned houses, ripped up the floors and burned the furniture for heat. Many died from diseases, especially from the water (two from my own family). We drank mostly rainwater, ate pigeons and even rats.

Money soon became worthless. We returned to an exchange. For a tin can of tushonka (think Soviet spam), you could have a woman. (It is hard to speak of it, but it is true.) Most of the women who sold themselves were desperate mothers.

Arms, ammunition, candles, lighters, antibiotics, gasoline, batteries and food. We fought for these things like animals. In these situations, it all changes. Men become monsters. It was disgusting.

Strength was in numbers. A man living alone getting killed and robbed would be just a matter of time, even if he was armed.

Today, me and my family are well-prepared, I am well-armed. I have experience.

It does not matter what will happen: an earthquake, a war, a tsunami, aliens, terrorists, economic collapse, uprising. The important part is that something will happen.

Here's my experience: You can't make it on your own. Don't stay apart from your family; prepare together, choose reliable friends.

1. How to move safely in a city

The city was divided into communities along streets. Our street (15 to 20 homes) had patrols (five armed men every week) to watch for gangs and for our enemies.

All the exchanges occurred in the street. About 5 kilometers away was an entire street for trading, all well-organized; but going there was too dangerous because of the snipers. You could also get robbed by bandits. I only went there twice, when I needed something really rare (list of medicine, mainly antibiotics, of the French original of the texts).

Nobody used automobiles in the city: The streets were blocked by wreckage and by abandoned cars. Gasoline was very expensive. If one needed to go somewhere, that was done at night. Never travel alone or in groups that were too big -- always two to three men. All armed, travel swift, in the shadows, cross streets through ruins, not along open streets.

There were many gangs 10 to 15 men strong, some as large as 50 men. But there were also many normal men, like you and me, fathers and grandfathers, who killed and robbed. There were no "good" and "bad" men. Most were in the middle and ready for the worst.

2. What about wood? Your home city is surrounded by woods; why did you burn doors and furniture?

There were not that many woods around the city. It was very beautiful -- restaurants, cinemas, schools, even an airport. Every tree in the city and in the city park was cut down for fuel in the first two months.

Without electricity for cooking and heat, we burned anything that burned. Furniture, doors, flooring: That wood burns swiftly. We had no suburbs or suburban farms. The enemy was in the suburbs. We were surrounded. Even in the city you never knew who was the enemy at any given point.

3. What knowledge was useful to you in that period?

To imagine the situation a bit better, you should know it was practically a return to the Stone Age.

For example, I had a container of cooking gas. But I did not use it for heat. That would be too expensive! I attached a nozzle to it I made myself and used to fill lighters. Lighters were precious.

If a man brought an empty lighter, I would fill it; and he would give me a tin of food or a candle.

I was a paramedic. In these conditions, my knowledge was my wealth. Be curious and skilled. In these conditions, the ability to fix things is more valuable than gold.

Items and supplies will inevitably run out, but your skills will keep you fed.

I wish to say this: Learn to fix things, shoes or people.

My neighbor, for example, knew how to make kerosene for lamps. He never went hungry.

4. If you had three months to prepare now, what would you do?

Three months? Run away from the country? (joking)

Today, I know everything can collapse really fast. I have a stockpile of food, hygiene items, batteries -- enough to last me for six months.

I live in a very secure flat and own a home with a shelter in a village 5 kilometers away. Another six-month supply there, too. That's a small village; most people there are well-prepared. The war had taught them.

I have four weapons and 2,000 rounds for each.

I have a garden and have learned gardening. Also, I have a good instinct. You know, when everyone around you keeps telling you it'll all be fine, but I know it will all collapse.

I have strength to do what I need to protect my family. Because when it all collapses, you must be ready to do "bad" things to keep your children alive and protect your family.

Surviving on your own is practically impossible. (That's what I think.) Even you're armed and ready, if you're alone, you'll die. I have seen that happen many times.

Families and groups, well-prepared, with skills and knowledge in various fields: That's much better.

5. What should you stockpile?

That depends. If you plan to live by theft, all you need is weapons and ammo. Lots of ammo.

If not, more food, hygiene items, batteries, accumulators, little trading items (knives, lighters, flints, soap). Also, alcohol of a type that keeps well. The cheapest whiskey is a good trading item.

Many people died from insufficient hygiene. You'll need simple items in great amounts. For example, garbage bags. Lots of them. And toilet papers. Non-reusable dishes and cups: You'll need lots of them. I know that because we didn't have any at all.

As for me, a supply of hygiene items is perhaps more important than food. You can shoot a pigeon. You can find a plant to eat. You can't find or shoot any disinfectant.

Disinfectant, detergents, bleach, soap, gloves, masks.

First aid skills, washing wounds and burns. Perhaps you will find a doctor and will not be able to pay him.

Learn to use antibiotics. It's good to have a stockpile of them.

You should choose the simplest weapons. I carry a Glock .45. I like it, but it's a rare gun here. So I have two TT pistols, too. (Everyone has them and ammo is common.)

I don't like Kalashnikov's, but again, same story. Everyone has them; so do I.

You must own small, unnoticeable items. For example, a generator is good, but 1,000 BIC lighters are better. A generator will attract attention if there's any trouble, but 1,000 lighters are compact, cheap and can always be traded.

We usually collected rainwater into four large barrels and then boiled it. There was a small river, but the water in it became very dirty very fast.

It's also important to have containers for water: barrels and buckets.

6. Were gold and silver useful?

Yes. I personally traded all the gold in the house for ammunition.

Sometimes, we got our hands on money: dollars and Deutschmarks. We bought some things for them, but this was rare and prices were astronomical. For example, a can of beans cost $30 to $40. The local money quickly became worthless. Everything we needed we traded for through barter.

7. Was salt expensive?

Yes, but coffee and cigarettes were even more expensive. I had lots of alcohol and traded it without problems. Alcohol consumption grew over 10 times as compared to peacetime. Perhaps today, it's more useful to keep a stock of cigarettes, lighters and batteries. They take up less space.

At this time, I was not a survivalist. We had no time to prepare -- several days before the shit hit the fan. The politicians kept repeating over the TV that everything was going according to plan, there's no reason to be concerned. When the sky fell on our heads, we took what we could.

8. Was it difficult to purchase firearms? What did you trade for arms and ammunition?

After the war, we had guns in every house. The police confiscated lots of guns at the beginning of the war. But most of them we hid. Now I have one legal gun that I have a license for. Under the law, that's called a temporary collection. If there is unrest, the government will seize all the registered guns. Never forget that.

You know, there are many people who have one legal gun, but also illegal guns if that one gets seized. If you have good trade goods, you might be able to get a gun in a tough situation. But remember, the most difficult time is the first days, and perhaps you won't have enough time to find a weapon to protect your family. To be disarmed in a time of chaos and panic is a bad idea.

In my case, there was a man who needed a car battery for his radio. He had shotguns. I traded the accumulator for both of them. Sometimes, I traded ammunition for food, and a few weeks later traded food for ammunition. Never did the trade at home, never in great amounts.

Few people knew how much and what I keep at home.

The most important thing is to keep as many things as possible in terms of space and money. Eventually, you'll understand what is more valuable.

Correction: I'll always value weapons and ammunition the most. Second? Maybe gas masks and filters.

9. What about security?

Our defenses were very primitive. Again, we weren't ready, and we used what we could. The windows were shattered, and the roofs in a horrible state after the bombings. The windows were blocked -- some with sandbags, others with rocks.

I blocked the fence gate with wreckage and garbage, and used a ladder to get across the wall. When I came home, I asked someone inside to pass over the ladder. We had a fellow on our street that completely barricaded himself in his house. He broke a hole in the wall, creating a passage for himself into the ruins of the neighbor's house -- a sort of secret entrance.

Maybe this would seem strange, but the most protected houses were looted and destroyed first. In my area of the city, there were beautiful houses with walls, dogs, alarms and barred windows. People attacked them first. Some held out; others didn't. It all depended how many hands and guns they had inside.

I think defense is very important, but it must be carried out unobtrusively. If you are in a city and SHTF comes, you need a simple, non-flashy place, with lots of guns and ammo.

How much ammo? As much as possible.

Make your house as unattractive as you can.

Right now, I own a steel door, but that's just against the first wave of chaos. After that passes, I will leave the city to rejoin a larger group of people, my friends and family.

There were some situations during the war. There's no need for details, but we always had superior firepower and a brick wall on our side.

We also constantly kept someone watching the streets. Quality organization is paramount in case of gang attacks.

Shooting was constantly heard in the city.

Our perimeter was defended primitively. All the exits were barricaded and had little firing slits. Inside we had at least five family members ready for battle at any time and one man in the street, hidden in a shelter.

We stayed home through the day to avoid sniper fire.

At first, the weak perish. Then, the rest fight.

During the day, the streets were practically empty due to sniper fire. Defenses were oriented toward short-range combat alone. Many died if they went out to gather information, for example. It's important to remember we had no information, no radio, no TV -- only rumors and nothing else.

There was no organized army; every man fought. We had no choice. Everybody was armed, ready to defend themselves.

You should not wear quality items in the city; someone will murder you and take them. Don't even carry a "pretty" long arm, it will attract attention.

Let me tell you something: If SHTF starts tomorrow, I'll be humble. I'll look like everyone else. Desperate, fearful. Maybe I'll even shout and cry a little bit.

Pretty clothing is excluded altogether. I will not go out in my new tactical outfit to shout: "I have come! You're doomed, bad guys!" No, I'll stay aside, well-armed, well-prepared, waiting and evaluating my possibilities, with my best friend or brother.

Super-defenses, super-guns are meaningless. If people think they should steal your things, that you're profitable, they will. It's only a question of time and the amount of guns and hands.

10. How was the situation with toilets?

We used shovels and a patch of earth near the house. Does it seem dirty? It was. We washed with rainwater or in the river, but most of the time the latter was too dangerous. We had no toilet paper; and if we had any, I would have traded it away.

It was a "dirty" business.

Let me give you a piece of advice: You need guns and ammo first -- and second, everything else. Literally everything! All depends on the space and money you have.

If you forget something, there will always be someone to trade with for it. But if you forget weapons and ammo, there will be no access to trading for you.

I don't think big families are extra mouths. Big families means both more guns and strength -- and from there, everyone prepares on his own.

11. How did people treat the sick and the injured?

Most injuries were from gunfire. Without a specialist and without equipment, if an injured man found a doctor somewhere, he had about a 30 percent chance of survival.

It ain't the movie. People died. Many died from infections of superficial wounds. I had antibiotics for three to four uses -- for the family, of course.

People died foolishly quite often. Simple diarrhea will kill you in a few days without medicine, with limited amounts of water.

There were many skin diseases and food poisonings… nothing to it.

Many used local plants and pure alcohol -- enough for the short-term, but useless in the long term.

Hygiene is very important, as well as having as much medicine as possible -- especially antibiotics.



Thursday, May 9, 2013





The following blog is from the editor's of The American Refugees Blog.


AMERICANS DIED; OBAMA LIED
 
Stick a fork in Obama he’s done. I believe you will now see a steady decline in both his job approval numbers and personal favorability. Obama was proven to be a liar yesterday. Even wishy-washy moderates don’t like presidents to blatantly lie to them.

As hearings continue and more Americans pay attention, it will become clear to the majority of Americans that Obama is a liar. As his administration was spinning the lie about the video and a spontaneous demonstration, he knew there had been no demonstration and that the video had been a non even in Libya. In fact, the day after the attacks, we informed the President of Egypt, Mohammad Magariaf, that Ansar Al Sharia  was the group responsible for the attack.

Obama’s only defense will be to claim that he didn’t know what every person on the ground in the attacks and every mid level State Department official know. It would be the defense of, I’m not a liar, I was just incompetent and uninvolved.

Aside from the fact that the administration lied to the American people as a whole and specifically to the families of our fallen heroes, their lies contradicted the president of Libya and so offended the Libyan government, that our FBI agents were not given access to the scene for 18 days, cooperation was not given in the streets, and we lost the opportunity to find individual terrorists and hold them accountable.

This president’s desire to deny that America is still hated in the region, that Islamic Jihadist extremism is still a real threat, and that the war against terrorists didn’t end with the death of Bin Laden, is so strong that he is willing to lie to the American people and let offend a foreign government that would have been willing to help us. The administrations’ lies had real consequences in the world.  They will now have real consequences politically.
 

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Irish Joe

From The Editors:
Irish Joe Harrison has an extremely popular blog at BlogSpot. http://irishjoeharrison.blogspot.com/  We wanted to share some of our thoughts about him and share a couple of his blogs here.  With his permission, we will do that occasionally. The American Refugee reads Irish Joe's blog every morning and encourages all patriots to do the same. Joe's blog's are focused and to the point and make excellent reading every day. Without further ado, we now include two blogs by Irish Joe and encourage all to follow him over at BlogSpot as well as on Twitter. His wife is great and also deserves a follow.

New Gun Owners
By Joe Harrison
Thanks to the liberal push to ban guns, there are now more gun owners than ever. As a matter of fact, I think it’s safe to say that the citizenry of the United States is now better armed than it has been at any other time in history. I think this is a great thing, they push to take guns away and we respond by buying them in record numbers. Everywhere we go we are meeting people who are now carrying guns, and doing it legally.
With this all being said, I felt compelled to share my opinions on a couple of issues concerning gun ownership. Keep in mind that these are just my opinions and you may agree or disagree, however, they are based on ten years in law enforcement, during which I spent a year as a firearms instructor and a year as a competitive shooter. I also survived numerous shootouts and I really don’t care to discuss how many people I have had to shoot during those years.
 
Many of the people we talk to have attended some sort of firearms safety course and have fired their weapons at the range. They are familiar with the basic operation of course but they know nothing about the proper care of the weapon. One person had a .380 auto in his pocket, told me that he had fired it and it worked fine, but had never broken it down and cleaned it because he did not know how. He said it was OK though, because he kept it sprayed down with WD40. I can tell you without a shadow of a doubt that it is not a matter of IF his gun is going to fail but WHEN. If you are in a similar situation, take this tip, you can go to youtube, look up your gun and there will be step by step instructions there on how to break it down. I have yet to find a gun that was not there somewhere. It was my wife who said that you should have a sort of personal relationship with your weapon and she was absolutely correct.
 
Now let’s talk about caliber. .22 seems to be the most popular but we also see some .25 auto and 380 auto. People give all sorts of reasons for carrying these small calibers; everything from, it fits well in my pocket to, it is really cute to, a .22 can kill you. Personally, when I carry, which is pretty much all the time, I am going to have on a man stopper. Both my wife and I carry .40 caliber loaded with hollow points as well as extra magazines. Yes, a .22 CAN stop a person, if you have time to get really close and pull off a well aimed calm kill shot, or you just get really lucky. My .40 WILL stop a person, even if I only hit them in the arm. Keep in mind that if you are in a position to use the weapon, you are going to be in fear of your life, your heart will be beating a million miles an hour and you will be experiencing an overdose of adrenalin. The chance that you will be able to get off a well aimed shot is pretty slim.
 
Now that brings us to one of the most important issues. I can’t count the number of people who have told us that they don’t plan on ever shooting anyone; all they will have to do is point it at them and scare them off. Now, I consider myself to be one of the good guys, but everyone needs to be aware that there are a lot of people like me out there and some of them are bad guys. Somehow, some way, I was born without the ability to feel fear when threatened. I can only perceive a threat and react to it, almost like a machine. The fear of what happened usually doesn’t hit me until several hours later. With that being said, if you were to pull a gun on me with the intent of scaring me, you would immediately be shot because my reaction would be swift and natural, I wouldn’t even have time to put any thought into it. Like I said, if I am that way, there are many bad people who are the same. If you are not prepared to fire that weapon and take someone’s life, then you are probably better off not having it on you, it can get you killed. That fraction of hesitation is often all it takes. Most armed conflicts last a matter of seconds from beginning to end. You should also always keep in mind that the best way to survive a gunfight is not to get in one.
 
There is a huge responsibility that goes along with carrying a firearm every day. This sounds bad to say but you must be able to instantly flip that switch in your head, changing you into a cold blooded killer. If you don’t think that you can do that, you may want to leave the gun at home. Don’t get me wrong, I would be fine if everyone carried all the time, I just would prefer that everyone knew exactly what that entails.
Practice, practice, practice…you cannot train too much. When you need to use that weapon it must be natural, there should be no thought involved as to what you should do or how you should do it. Not only does that mean regular trips to the range, but you should also practice mentally. You really should prepare yourself mentally as well as physically to take someone’s life. There is no other purpose for that weapon, it is there to kill someone in order to protect your life or the life of someone else…that’s it.
 
 
The American Refugee
By Joe Harrison
Yesterday, it was my pleasure as well as my honor to appear on a radio program called The American Refugee. This is a link to the recorded program in case you are interested in listening http://www.blogtalkradio.com/americanrefugee/2013/04/23/the-renegade-the-refugee
 
The show is run by a gentleman named Roger C. D'Aquin and he is quite the character. I think what impressed us the most was his sheer passion for our cause, the cause of returning America to the great country it once was. I can tell you that this is a guy that will never give up, he will push and fight to the very end and it is people like him who will bring victory to us all.
 
I strongly recommend that you check out his web page at http://www.theamericanrefugees.com/
Spread the word about him. He is a little unconventional at times, he has even been known to dress up as a superhero and walk the streets handing out copies of the constitution. How great is that? I love it. He has also literally given up everything in his life to pursue this venture. How many of us would do the same? We should all be interested in what he is doing so, follow him on twitter, facebook, or just check out the site every day. You will not regret it.

Monday, May 6, 2013

Why Choose Home Scooling By Sasha Mercer


From The Editors: We are proud to introduce our homeschooling blogger and mom, Sasha Mercer. We at The American Refugees believe that the government is intentionally dumbing down our kids. We believe that our system of government requires an educated populace to survive. Sasha Mercer will be a regular contributor.

Why choose homeschooling?



People not familiar with the homeschooling community often conjure up ideas of ultra conservative, Christian families with a minimum of 5 kids when they hear the word homeschoolers, but if they do, they would certainly not be up to date on the rapidly growing movement that is homeschooling.

People from all walks of life choose homeschooling for their children for very different reasons, often choosing this path for a variety of reasons, not just one. People in the media and those that  do poll taking don’t particularly like that answer, they want one neat little answer to put us in a tidy category to label us as A, B, or C but that isn’t reality.


 One of America’s greatest attributes was that its citizens were fiercely individual while being brought together by a common bond of loving their God, country, and the freedom they had in both. A change has taken place over the past fifty years that has slowly stripped this individualism bit by bit until we see ourselves from the view of the herd. We don’t want to be different, we don’t want to be viewed as on the “fringe,”  we certainly don’t want to be viewed as “weird” and this is what I strongly believe causes the fear of homeschooling from those not familiar with it.


 The failure of our public school system to prepare our kids to be successful not only in the career they choose but also in their personal lives definitely plays a big role in many parents decisions to homeschool. Often the children start out in the system to only be brought home at some point in their school career. Spirituality often plays a factor as well. God, no matter what your faith, is not welcome in our public schools and when you put God first and foremost in your life, sending your child to an institution 7 hours a day that says God is not welcomed there, nor even allowed to be mentioned, this does and SHOULD cause people to take a serious look at their decision at whom they are entrusting their child’s education with. But if this was the only case for many families they could simply send their children to private, parochial schools. Problem solved! Tuition is high at these schools but financial aid, discounts for siblings, often make private schools more available to people of a lower income than many people think. Once again, this is not just the only reason people choose this for their family. 


 I personally chose homeschooling for my children because of many factors, the first two I discussed came into play tremendously. No institution that doesn’t welcome God in their halls is welcome to MY children, period. I attended both public and private schools and got an acceptable education in the private school I attended, its graduates going on to some of the country’s most prestigious universities, but while I went through the motions in school, studied, memorized facts for tests and got good grades, went on to college and repeated the cycle, there was no fire lit beneath me on any topic. I hated math, I was bored by history text books, science was sterile and boring, foreign language and art were just something I needed to take because college admissions and then a degree required it. College was just as boring as the previous 12 years of education had been.


 It wasn’t until I was out of college, reading history on my own, studying art, learning a language because I actually wanted to, did I see the wonder in learning and I knew that I wanted to give this same excitement and connection to my children. I also wanted my family to bond and build upon that bond for as long as we were a connected family unit and they went off to start their own family. In my own experience, and from what I had seen over the years, spending several hours a day with non-family members did not help this bond, in fact it actually hurt it. Friends are important, don’t get me wrong, and seeking the advice and learning to function with those that aren’t connected by blood is very important to get out into society as an adult, but very few times do we sit in a counselor or pastor’s office lamenting on the damaged relationship we’ve had with a teacher or classmate when we were children. It isn’t friendship issues that we struggle with come holiday times. Friends, for the most part, come and go but mom, dad and siblings, will be lifelong relationships.


 Religious or not, all parents want a great relationship with their kids that last a lifetime, too many families these days are torn apart for various reasons or are just distanced from each other more than they would like to be on an emotional level. Home schooling your children keeps your family unit closer together and builds a stronger bond than a child that leaves the home for several hours a day, starting at the age of six. 

The subject matter also plays a huge role in parents’ decision to homeschool. The subjects you study beyond the minimum required topics, have no limit. For art, we don’t just do an art project, we study the masters that shaped the art world. We take can look at the museum schedule to plan a field trip and study a particular master in preparation for it. We can see a program on the history channel about a certain historical event that piques the interest of your child and you can take a week to study it further. We should want to teach our children that learning is exciting and a lifelong endeavor, not something that only serves the purpose of passing a test and getting good report cards.


 If your child is struggling with a particular math book’s way of teaching (and trust me there are hundreds, maybe thousands, of different math books out there!) you can find one that does work. No two children’s learning styles are the same, the chance that 20 children in the same class, let alone thousands of children in the same school, will be successful with one particular curriculum, are slim to none. Instead of blaming the child for his inability to master math, or decide his learning ability is limited, you can find something that works for that individual child. 


Turn on the news, talk to a teen in high school or just look at a teen’s Facebook page and you will learn a frightening fact; bullying, despite all the touchy feely politically correct language we throw at our kids in the school system, is worse than it has probably ever been. No longer does the mean girl just whisper about you amongst the popular kids, she spreads her vile, vicious rumors around social media where it goes directly to her 900 “friends.” But doesn’t my child need to learn to deal with this, isn’t this socialization? But ask yourself this question; when did you  have to “deal” with this at work? The offender would immediately be fired! 


Children do not need to be bullied to learn how to deal with conflict resolution. I will discuss the “socialization” topic in a future article because the big “s” word is a 20 page topic in and of itself.

Home schooling is one of the best things you can do for your children, for a variety of reasons. Our kids belong to US. We, not a school system, have their best interests at heart, and that is the foremost reason to choose home schooling.

Written By Sasha Mercer
Homeschooling blogger at www.TheAmericanRefugees.com




An Introduction to Our Blog


This blog is managed by www.TheAmericanRefugees.com. Here, we will post the blogs of The American Refugee, other bloggers at TheAmericanRefugees.com, and also we will share blogs from guest bloggers, who have agreed to have their work posted here.

American Refugees are a mix of men and women from different racial, ethnic, and socioeconomic groups. Some of us are Christians, some belong to other faiths, and some are objectivists. We are a mix of Republicans, Libertarians, and independent conservatives. We are all Americans. None of us recognize our country any longer. We all want it back. 

We are strict constitutionalists who believe in liberty and a limited republican form of government. We reject the unconstitutional government lead by the criminal, Barack Obama. We are not terrorists. We do not advocate violence. We do advocate political and economic revolution. We also refuse to be disarmed and will not surrender our weapons. We will defend our homes, property, lives, and families against any illegal attack, even if it comes from government.


We were inspired by the great super hero, The American Refugee, Roger D’Aquin. Roger was rocked by the betrayal of Justice Roberts in the ObamaCare decision. He did all he could in the next months to see to it that Obama was defeated. When voter fraud, a corrupt media, and dependent moochers left Obama in office, Roger gave up his career and his small business in order to go Galt, with a twist.


He spends his days dressed as a superhero, the American Refugee. He gives away pocket constitutions, American Flags, and bumper stickers. He poses for pictures, speaks the truth, and fights for liberty and human rights in the streets. He educates and inspires the people. He speaks truth to the faces of our enemies. He starves the beast by paying no income taxes and bleeding more out of the federal government than he pays, in other unavoidable taxes. He mourns for America and prays for America to rise from the ashes.


While he does this mainly in a very “Red” state, he does it mainly from the very “Blue” city of New Orleans. He even has the guts to do it from the belly of the beast, in the French Quarter. He also teaches American History and the US Constitution to children. He earns no salary, but relies on the generosity of patriots to survive. 


Patriots who join The American Refugees, take our oath.

 A.R. Oath: I, (Your Name Here) do solemnly swear (or affirm) that as an American Refugee, I will support and defend the Constitution of the United States and her citizens against all enemies, foreign and domestic, including against an unconstitutional government; that I will bear true faith and allegiance to the same; that I will not disarm; that I will not recognize ObamaCare as the law of the land, since it is unconstitutional; that I will not obey any unconstitutional executive orders or laws, and that until the United States has returned to obedience to the US Constitution, I will do my best to starve the beast of the federal government, by paying as few taxes as possible. So help me God. 

While we are willing to look at any conservative, patriotic, or libertarian article and consider it for publication, our blogs will focus mainly on the following areas.

 1. Going Galt – we do it, we support it – we show you how – we help support American refugees who have gone Galt. A free people will not support this unconstitutional government.

2. 2nd amendment freedoms – we refuse to disarm, we are ready to fight, we engage in political activism supporting the 2nd amendment and oppose gun control. We will stand with other patriots against any assault from government.  A free people are an armed people.
3. Overturning ObamaCare This is a game changer. We cannot support this government until ObamCare is overturned. A free people are not forced to buy a product against their will.
4. Education – we distribute US constitutions and educate the public in our constitutional republican form of government. We also engage in a broad program of general education. The US government is dumbing the people down. A free people is a well informed an educated people.
5. We support Life.  Since all of our activities support Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, we must be pro- life. A free people are alive and do not kill their unborn. We cannot support a government that supports the slaughter of the unborn. We do all we can to oppose abortion and reach out and help pregnant women in crisis.